Wednesday, February 6, 2013

every day is valentine's.

i might argue that every day is  
 {nearly} valentine's day around here.

i am not the biggest fan of valentine's day-
i never have been. 
{i think i get it from my mother. could it possibly be a genetic dislike?} 

sure, i'm all into the mushy-gushy love thing.
a romantic candle lit dinner for two,
a dosen roses {as long as they aren't red.} and
you know me- i'd watch a romantic chick flick any given second.

however, i consider myself beyond spoiled 
because lovebird is almost as big as a hopeless romantic as i am.
he's far better at expressing his love in a mushy- gushy way;
in fact, he's so good at it- i often wonder if he writes it down and memorizes
the brilliant combination to his romantic wording
 before he says it to effortlessly to me in the moment.

when it comes to dinner for two?  that's a usual thing for us.
which, could possibly be a perk of living away from home.
we are "alone", as some people might say-
but, i'd say it's the other way around,
because i've never felt more comforted and secure than i do now.

onto the flowers...
he know's the way to my heart is an unexpected bouquet of flowers.
he's mastered the art of the unexpected; 
meaning he's good friends with the local florist. 

surprisingly, lovebird likes a good chick flick.
of course, he prefers the manly shows that are jam packed with tons of action.
{he would kill me if he knew i was revealing his secret weakness.} 
where most women have to pull teeth to get their lover to watch 
scenes of kissing, flirting and a chain of dramatic events-
lovebird willing plops down on the couch beside me and presses play.
in my books, that's what a real man is. 

since, it feels like valentine's day around here almost every day,
{just minus the title of the holiday on the correct day of the year}
i really don't have reason to anticipate the actually holiday.
in fact, this year- i will be in the theater at a dress rehearsal until 11:00 at night.
now, we are talking romantic, right? ;)
over the years, this holiday has evolved into something else.
the day itself serves as a day of remembrance for me.
her spirit lives on in my heart.
the same heart i now share with lovebird.
thank goodness the actual day is meant for an exaggeration for love-
because, a big heart full of love is the one thing i do enjoy about this holiday.
that, and also the giggle i get every time i think of her
dancing around in heaven, laughing a good laugh, 
over the fact that i ended up with her all time crush.

so, cheers to lovebird spoiling me 365 days of the year,
valentine's day being a reason to remember and love harder
and to a best friend who will always mean the world to me,
no matter how far away heaven may seem. 


  1. This is just such a lovely post! A perfect way to start my day!

  2. you guys are too cute. seriously.
    and in our house we will both be on campus and at work for about 12 hours or so, soooo it looks like a homework night to me. haha.


  3. Cutest Lovebirds I know!! Lucky girl :) Hope you have a Fab day hun. xoxo

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  6. Okay, EXTREMELY jealous that your man is just mushy-gushy all the time! Adore!
    xo TJ

  7. I know what you mean.. while we are not mushy all the time.. our toddler doesn't approve of PDA.. even around the house.. all our kisses are meant for him!
    But my husband is always surprising me with shoes, or a slice of cheesecake.. and other random awesomeness.. so we don;t need any grand gestures on days like valentines.

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